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Thursday, 15 October 2009
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Overcome by October
Here I am, whizzing right along as the year passes, not even giving me time for a decent review. October is nearly half gone, and the Halloween displays in the supermarket will give way to Christmas items in only a few weeks. I imagine the department stores have already started on that.
My calendar is a checklist of chores to do and those done, doctor appointments, which bills to pay when, and other things. Lately the repair people's numbers are jotted there too. And the health insurance and also mail order pharmacy notes. Not a very social calendar is it?
I saw a quote on Facebook this morning. "Take a good look at this day. It might be your last one." How's that for a reality check?
Lately we have had cloudy skies, or partly so anyway and on some days, the clear blue is so vivid it almost hurts my eyes, while the cloud formations are a wonder to behold. A daily panorama to delight us.
All I have on my agenda today is a haircut. Oh, I have the niggley chores around here, but that's everyday stuff. My hair is a mess. It looks as if I am trying to copy Leslie Stahl. What is up with that woman's hair? She must have broken her last mirror.
Well, I took a break and had the haircut. Sure does feel good. I am at a point in my life when comfort and ease of upkeep mean everything to me. My hair, clothes, and what little make up I use must be easy. All my pants have elastic waists and my tops are easy care and easy fit. You can call me Easy Ava.
On the menu tonight will be smothered pork chops, navy beans and rice. I will probably steam some brussels sprouts to go with it. Whatcha think??
Nothing else of note except that I will take it easy the rest of the day till it's time to cook. We had to get a new fridge and the work of getting everything out and into iceboxes, hauling ice to keep stuff cool, cleaning behind the fridge (Eek, what a mess!) and then putting things back, emptying cool boxes, etc., has made me sore in places I didn't know I had places. Mostly my shoulders and arms. Oh Lordy. No fun getting old.
Ya'll keep on keepin' on and have a happy Halloween, then Thanksgiving and before you know it, Christmas.
Addendum
I came home from the beauty shop and found two cats, each in a chair here in my computer room, fast asleep and looking purposefully at me, daring me to move them. Honestly, they are lazier than I am. And that's pretty lazy.
Wednesday, 23 September 2009
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My morning
It rained all day yesterday. All day. I don't know how many inches we got, but it is still draining this morning. It's overcast and gray today with promise of more rain. No matter.
I already made my post office run this morning and was struck by even though there is no sunshine, I found beauty everywhere. Of course all the trees and shrubs are such a deep green and even the lawns are starting to come back. There are weeds where the heat and bugs killed the turf, but still the grass is making a try at covering the bare spots.
I spotted a rain tree fairly bursting with yellow blooms. I understand it is a sometimes invasive plant, but I have always loved them. The crepe myrtles are waning now, and the heavy rains knocked blooms off, but they will bloom again, especially if the seeds are clipped off. I really need to do that to ours.
Everyone I crossed paths with was so polite, wishing me a good day, or a how are you, even though I didn't know them at all. I heard a little child chattering away to a man who was probably his grandfather. As a parent of several babbling children, I used to long for a little adult conversation once in a while. But now I miss the chatter.
The demolition company is finished with getting rid of an eyesore of an old place, not old enough to be historical or pretty, but an old house probably from the 50s. Now the lot is bare and there is fill sand to build it up. One sad this is that they cut two huge pecan trees down and now it is all smooth where they grew. I hope someone picks up the good pecan wood and uses it for grilling. It's a fragrant wood.
The man I spoke with the other day here in the neighborhood called a good morning to me when I put out the garbage can. We had talked about the nuisance barking dogs. I like it when neighbors acknowledge me now and then. It's the old fashioned coming out in me. I remember as a kid that we knew all of our neighbors and visited with them in our yards, on our front porches and sometimes in their homes. Now that so many people work the old fashioned idea of the neighborhood is not possible. Some of them I never see, and others only infrequently.
Gordon has eaten his lunch and I will eat mine a little later. We have leftovers of the shrimp etouffee I made for last night's supper. He is still having severe pain and really doesn't enjoy his food when he is like this, but eats because he knows he needs it. As for me, I eat for no reason. lol
I do know one thing. I tend to eat when stressed. After any sort of upset, I want to head for the fridge or the snack crackers or anything that is not nailed down. When I was first diagnosed with diabetes, I figured how hard is this. I am not a real sweets person. Now I long for pie. Or cheesecake.
I hope each and everyone of you have a good day with weather that pleases you and hours that you enjoy.
Sunday, 20 September 2009
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Been sick
Not me, my computer. I picked up an insidious piece of crapola on FB and it messed up my PC big time. It was only here a few hours, but that was enough to corrupt 138 files and keep giving me annoying pop ups from a hoax program that offered me the deal of cleaning off my computer for $79. I called Microsoft and got a foreign tech who wanted my credit card number to help me. After repeated badgering on my part and his reluctance to shut up, I was transferred to yet another man with a thick accent who didn't want to tell me anything until I finally said no, nothing till I was given a price. Over $200! I left him stuttering, trying to sell me a little cheaper plan as I hung up on him. Talk about high pressure!
As luck would have it, very good luck, on my PO run I stopped by a childhood friend's second hand shop and her daughter in law was in the store and told me her hubby was a computer repair guy and that her could clean my computer for $45. I called him and he was at my house in a couple of hours. He took my tower and kept it overnight. He advised me to replace my power source so the entire charge would be $70.
I am clean, and running fine. What a good feeling. Only thing is I am afraid I sent on this bug to several friends. It came to me with the name of my nephew who lives in Hawaii. It said it was a video and I thought it would be surfing video. Instead it was porno complete with a dirty little worm in it. Yuck. Live and learn. I may never open another video again.
It's cloudy and a little cooler today. I fixed Sunday lunch, pork pot roast with delicious gravy, rice, navy beans and steamed carrots. I am so glad I got to go to Mass yesterday, leaving me free today to cook at noon. Gordon enjoyed it and that's the most important part.
Oh yes, one other thing. My camera died and I haven't gotten another yet. I would love to send a pic of what happened to my bougainvilla. It came from Gordon's mother many years ago and now is in my side garden. It's salmon colored and blooming profusely. And in the middle of all that salmon, there is a bright fuschia flower. How is this happening? Anyone ever have this experience?
Wednesday, 16 September 2009
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Memories
I am haunted by Mama's face in this picture. It was taken in the early 50s, either right before or right after I got married. She is sitting on the windowseat in our house on Martin Drive.
It is seldom you see a photo of her when she is not smiling. I am sure the reason for it here is that the myesthenia gravis is starting to take hold. One early symptom is drooping eyelids or an inability to change expressions much. It robbed her of her smile.
The pic makes me sad because I remember the years following her initial diagnosis and how she suffered and had such highs and lows that several times she was near death. She even spent some time in an enormous iron lung when the disease caused the muscles around her lungs to give out. She took the meds available then for it and the side effects were awful, causing GI symptoms till she was a shivering little woman lying in bed and crying with pain. She told me it was like worms or bugs under her skin all over her body and stomach cramps worse than childbirth. She hated that Daddy had to take care of her. She was in and out of the ERs and had several hospital stays too. Her blood pressure would soar so that we thought sure she would stroke.
Poor little Mama. She bore everything with grace and leaned on her faith. My sister and I did the best we could to help, but Sis was in high school and was busy trying to make good grades. I was in the middle of having babies that she was too weak to hold.
I know many people have to suffer throughout their lives and we wonder why. I do wonder when I look at Mama's face here. Did she realize how hard it would be? I don't think so. MG was not well known back then. In fact when we went to one young doctor and he read her chart, he told us he was mystified that she had reached her age because he hadn't never heard of a MG patient living that long with it. I told him he wasn't old enough to know of many cases since he was only in his 30s. Then he confessed to us he had never seen any MG victims at all in his short practice.
Look in her eyes. What do you see there?
Saturday, 12 September 2009
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The good and the bad, and the mystery of rain.
The season is upon us. We've had rain for the last week or so. Some days it's heavy and others it's barely there, but still it falls. Personally, I love it maybe because it's been so danged hot and dry for so long. Chinch bugs have decimated the lawn. Why oh why don't they eat weeds and nut grass! No, they only eat the good St. Augustine sod that we have in this area. I find no consolation in the fact that other yards look as bad or worse than ours. Gordon really hates it because he remembers a time when he stayed on top of things and put out the poison for the odious little critters and kept them at bay when yards all around us succumbed to them.
But in time, I suppose the grass will come back and it will be pretty again till the next hot dry spell. Maybe I can keep better watch on it next year.
And it's the season that weatherguessers love. They gloat and prance about pointing to the giant maps and watch every little wave or ripple even way off thousands of miles, trying to tell us they know what is going to happen and where the next hurricane will hit when there is no hurricane yet.
I wouldn't make a good weatherman. If nothing was imminent, I would say so, telling people to relax and wait for something real. Then I would fold up my map and go home for a nap. But they have to report something I suppose. Why not where the weather is balmy and beautiful and no one is burning up with heat or dying in the cold, or drowning or being earthquaked? I know that's not a word, but I like it.
I love how our local talking heads complain of the heat in the summer and then gripe about the cold in the winter. They hardly pay attention to the seasons inbetween when normal people enjoy the nice temps. I think most anchors and co hosts are secretly in love and find those little exchanges a form of TV flirting. "Oooo Bob, I am so hot! Can't you find us a bit of cool weather?" she says as she flutters her false eyelashes.
As far as weather is concerned, I am neutral. I am lucky enough to have an air conditioned home so I can stay in if I don't like what is happening outside. At my age, comfort is everything. After all, what else do we have? The only thing I care about is that we don't have to evacuate from a hurricane. If we do, I need to make arrangements at the funeral home because it will kill both of us to do that again. Pack up everything, including cats, try not to think of our things that might be destroyed, hit the road with thousands of others, all running like rats from a sinking ship. Drive, drive, drive, even though your muscles are aching and your feet are crying out loud. Worry about your ailing spouse who groans with every small bump in the road. Finally find whatever accommodations there are God knows where and unload everything. Try to make meals and be semi comfortable in a room that is the worst you have ever stayed in and pray for the all clear so you can go home.
Pack up everything again and get back on the road, counting the hours till you get there. Sadly see all the debris and destroyed homes, power lines, and general destruction all the way home. Finally getting to your home town, and still seeing really bad damage everywhere. Turning the corner onto your street just knowing your home is destroyed. No, it's still there. No power and the yard is a mess, but the roof is there.
I find this stressful to the max and then I think of those who are left with nothing and I am praying thanks for us, feeling guilt about them, so I pray for us all.
No, we can't go. That's it. I read in our paper that if we don't go we are subject to a fine. Sorry, I am still not going.
I just now went out to pick up our morning paper. Gosh the light rain felt good. If my feet would allow, I think I might take a walk in the rain. Mama and I used to like that.
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- Name: Ava
- Country: United States
- State: Texas
- Metro: Port Arthur
- Gender: Female
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